David is remembered with three panels on the AIDS Quilt Blocks 2936, 3048, and 3124. His original Times Squares club shirt can be seen on block 2936.
GROSS—David T. Of New York and Sandisfield, MA. Died on August 17 after a courageous 45 month battle against a debilitating disease. He was the son of Irving Gross of New Rochelle and the late Phyllis. He leaves brothers, devoted friends and his longtime companion, Kenneth Tewel. David was a Senior Analyst at the Federal Reserve Bank in New York when he became ill. Service Wednesday, 9:30 AM, at “The Riverside”, 76th St and Amsterdam Ave, N.Y.C. Interment will follow in the family plot at Sharon Gardens beside his mother. 
At Cross Trails In The Desert, 1988
- The New York Times (New York, NY) Wednesday, 19 Aug 1992, p.D21